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Nodding head:
As the west, Nepalese may nod their heads up to down
(vertically) to mean "yes" and they may shake their
heads from side to side (horizontally) to mean "no". But
in Nepal, the "yes" movement is typically slower than
the "no". Moreover, a very slow side-to-side "figure 8"
roll of the head is also affirmative. This last head
movement is the most confusing for westerners as it is
easy to mistake fro "no" or "may be".
Flapping hands: An important hand gesture for westerners
to understand is the one which means "no, I don't have
it or any, or no, I don't want or any". To make the
gesture, the hand is held out in front of you, as if you
were going to shake hands, raised a little higher and
flapped back and forth quickly.
For Come & Go: Many westerners also mistake the Nepali
hand signals for "come here" and "go away". Both are
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arm extended in front of you, hand
open, with the palm down for "come here" fingers and
brought down and towards the chest while hand is closed
as if drawing something towards to you. This can look
like “Bye, Go away” wave the exact opposite what it
really means. The Nepali gesture for “go away” is less
confusing. In it the fingers of the extended hand are
swept up and away, as if brushing something off the air
in front of you.
Shaking hands: In the west, particularly the U.S.,
handshakes are film and brief. In Nepal, handshakes are
more extended and as a gesture of sincerity the left
hand may be placed on top of the person’s hand you are
shaking hand with. If the handshakes is too short, or if
the hand is pulled away to quickly, this may be
interpreted negatively, as a sign of dislike or anger.
Holding hands and embracing: Holding hands and embracing
between the same sexes is very common in Nepal and
expresses friendship between them. But it is not done
between opposite sexes.
Eye contact: During conversation a Nepali normally do
not look at the eyes of the person he is talking with.
Instead he may look elsewhere, but this does not imply
dishonesty or impoliteness.
Questions: Nepalese raise their hands and turn them once
quickly towards the chest to indicate questions like
“what, where, or when” depending upon the contexts. |
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Festivals & Celebrations |
Prithivi Jayanti: Birthday of the
builder of united Nepal King Prithivi Narayan Shaha,
tenth predecessor of king Birendra. This day is also
celebrated as the National Unity Day. Prithivi Narayan
Shaha was born in 1722. He was a king of Gorkha from
where he lunched a campaign of unifying the independent
states and created a unified Nepal. It is he who said “
my country is the land of flowers from all kind.” And”
my country is a yam between tow rocks”.
Maghe Sankranti: This festival with ritual bathing day
winter month’s marks the end of coldest. This festival
sends a massage that the better days have come at last
and the bad days are behind. Hindus go to the confluence
of sacred rivers and take holy baths on this day.
Thousands of people come to the Devghat river confluence
of this purpose. Newars call this festival ghyo-chaku
sanglo in which they eat special food with ghiu (refined
butter), chaku (refined molasses), and tarul(yam) to add
heat to the body.
Shahid dibas( marty’s day): on this day a procession is
taken to shahid get ( Marty’s gate) where the statues of
four Martyrs are located. Honor is given to Martyrs who
were sentenced to death for their activities on behalf
of democracy in Nepal during the Rana regime (before
1951). They were; Ganga Lal Pradhan, Dharma Bhakta,
Shukra Raj Joshi and Dasharath Chanda. There were more
martyrs but only four have been announced as martyrs by
the government.
Shree Panchami/Basanta Panchami (day of goddess of
learning): This day is dedicated to Saraswoti, the
goddess of music and learning. She is worshipped at the
Saraswoti temple west of Swyambhunath. This is day marks
the beginning of the spring season. This is an important
festival for students, scholars and artist who wish to
be blessings from Saraswoti for the success of their
ventures. It is a particularly ausipicious time for
weddings as well. On the same day there is a grand
ceremony held at the Hanuman Dhoka Palace in Kathmandu
Durbar Square in the presence of the King
Prajatantra Dibas(democracy Day): On this day in 1951,
democracy was decleared in Nepal after ousting the Rana
family from power. The Rana family had ruled in Nepal
for 104 years. But this multi-democratic system was
short lived. The late king Mahendra(the Father of the
past king Birendra) arrested all the political party
leaders in 1960 and the Panchayat, a party less
political system was established. Later in 1990, the
king had to announce the multi party system to replace
the Panchayat, under the pressure of the people’s
movement.
Shikshya Dibas (Education Day): On this day primary
education for all children in Nepal was made free in all
government schools. The schools are closed on this day.
Maha Shivaratri (meaning the night consecrated to
Shiva): it is celebrated in honor of Lord Shiva.
Thousands and thousands of pilgrims stream into the
valley from all over Nepal and Indian arrive at the
Pashupatinath temple many sadhus (saints) gather around
the temple and camp in the wood making a fire. Naked
Sadhus smear ashes all around their bodies. Bonfires are
made in the streets. In the afternoon a function
organized by the Nepal Army held in the Tundikhel
(Parade ground), and so attended by the King and Queen.
Lhosar(Tibetan New Year’s Day): Tibetan and Sherpa
people celebrate this this festival in February to
welcome their Happy New Year. Singing, dancing, feasting
and drinking are the festival. Ceremonies are performed
at Boudhanath, Swaymbhunath, and the Tibetan refugee
camp at Jawalakhel. Crowds of Tibetan and Shrepas
dressed up with their traditional costumes parade the
stupa with banners and portraits of the Dalai Lama.
Phagu Purnima(Holi): this festival is called the
festival of colors. It is supported to be celebrating on
the full moon day in the month of Falgun by throwing red
powder or colored water. But young boys and girls begins
few days before the moon-day to celebrate the festivals
by throwing water balloons each other in the valley.
However, foreigners become the target of most Nepali
young boys and girls on the special day of the festival.
So be prepared for the colors or colored water if you
want to be in the street on that day. You better wear
old clothes and protect your cameras.
Ghode Jatra (The horse Race Festival): this is the
festival of the Newars of Kathmandu city called ‘panchaare’.
They celebrate this festival for three days, inviting
their family and friends home for feasts. Also Nepal
Army organizes an event at the Tundikhel to show valor
and strength and on this occasion horse races and
acrobatic shows from the army take place in the parade
ground ( tundikhel) and the king and queen attend the
function.
Chaitra Dashain: this is relatively small Dashain in
contrast to the other dashain in October but the
goddesss Durga is worshipped in the same way by offering
animals sacrifices. It may not necessarily be as the one
in October. This is celebrated just for two days within
one’s family where as the other dashain is celebrated
among the families, relatives and neighbors for several
days.
Bisket Jatra: this is the great chariot festival of
Bhaktapur’s Newar community, which last for week. It is
celebrated on the first day of Baishakh, beginning on
the Nepali New Year. It is a welcome festival for the
New Year and one of the most exciting and interesting
events in the valley.
Maata tirtha Aaunsi(mothers Day): This day is also
called the day of looking upon one’s mother’s face.
Sweets and gifts are given to mothers on this day with
great respect to them. Blessings are received from in
return for that. Daughter likes to go to their parents’
home for this opportunity no matter how far it is. Those
who have lost their mothers go to Mata Tirtha pond to
bath and offer ablutions there in memory of their
mothers.
Buddha Jayanti(Buddha’s birthday): Lord Buddha was born
in Nepal (Lumbini) and his birthday is celebrated in the
Kathmandu valley. It is mainly focused in and around the
Swyambhnath stupa and the special celebration is
orgranized there in the presence of the king.
Swaymbhunath area becomes very busy on this day.
Guru Purnima(teacher’s Day): The full moon day of July
is dedicated to the teachers as the come second ( after
the gods) in the Hindu hierarchy of respect. Students
pay homage to their teachers and receive their blessing
from them in return. This day is sacred as the day when
Buddha to be entered the womb of the Queen Maya Devi,
thereby setting in motion the religious cycle of
Buddhism. Religious functions are held in all Buddhist
monasteries and temples to commemorate the day. Schools
and government offices are closed.
Ghantakarna: This festival represents a ritual
detoxification of the city, in order to banish the evil
sprits utside the city. Ghanta Karna(lit. bell ears) is
a demon so named because he wore bell earrings to down
out name of Bishnu, his enemy. An effigy of the demon
made from clumps of reeds is erected at the street
intersections and dragged in the evening to the
riverside and immersed in water. But in Bhaktapur the
effigy is burnet in the street. In the valley the nails
are hammered into the door litels in order that ghosts
cannot come into the house. On this day, children beg
money from pedestrians during the festival, sometimes
even blocking the road with a rope stretched across it. |
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